Category Archives: Dating and Relationships

I Have Lupus, Lupus Doesnt Have Me

I’m back! Yes, I know, it’s been a long time but whew! I have been battling a lot over the past few months.I went through a breakup, was diagnosed with Lupus, bought a house, suffered hair loss and lonliness, was in a car accident and truly battled depression for the first time in my life.ButContinueContinue reading “I Have Lupus, Lupus Doesnt Have Me”

I Deserve the King of Wakanda

Hey loves, it’s Videllia. Your favorite relationship and motivational blogger and I’m back with another blog post called “I Deserve the King of Wakanda” and so do you.  You can listen to the podcast below or keep scrolling to read the full post. Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/only1lady_v/king-of-wakanda/s-O17kw Full Post: I love the movie Black Panther. I sawContinueContinue reading “I Deserve the King of Wakanda”

You’re Not Too Old

You can listen to this post as a podcast or you can read it in full. Both are included below. https://soundcloud.com/only1lady_v/youre-not-too-old/s-e8RRZ   Hey Queens! As a newly single Queen (again), I’ve been spending a lot of time pausing and reflecting on my past relationship. His mistakes as well as mine. Red flags that I mayContinueContinue reading “You’re Not Too Old”

“When to invest time in someone”

Hey loves! Have you ever wondered when you should invest time and energy into someone? I know I have. A lot of people wonder this same thing because we often find ourselves feeling like we’ve wasted time on someone who wasn’t worthy of it. Well, my advice is to have an open conversation with theContinueContinue reading ““When to invest time in someone””