Creating a Safe Space for Your Man

Hey loves, in today’s video we are talking about 3 ways, Queens can create a safe space for the King in their life that makes them comfortable opening up and being vulnerable.

Shoutout to all the Kings who responded to my IG story with their thoughts.

One thing I forgot to say in the video with respect to the first point is to also recognize that our men have insecurities too so this is another reason why it’s so important to affirm them with your words instead of belittling them.

“When to invest time in someone”

Hey loves!

Have you ever wondered when you should invest time and energy into someone? I know I have. A lot of people wonder this same thing because we often find ourselves feeling like we’ve wasted time on someone who wasn’t worthy of it.

Well, my advice is to have an open conversation with the person you’re dating. Ask him/her what their intentions are and where they see things going. Hear the response but most importantly, make sure you pay attention to their actions! If a person says one thing but shows you something different with their actions, you may not want to invest your time or energy.

Check out my full video response to this question on my Relationship T.E.A. segment by clicking the YouTube link below. 

And if you have any dating questions that you want advice on, feel free to just reply to this email and I’ll post a video response for you too!  ~Videllia