Author Archives: Videllia

I Deserve the King of Wakanda

Hey loves, it’s Videllia. Your favorite relationship and motivational blogger and I’m back with another blog post called “I Deserve the King of Wakanda” and so do you.  You can listen to the podcast below or keep scrolling to read the full post. Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/only1lady_v/king-of-wakanda/s-O17kw Full Post: I love the movie Black Panther. I sawContinueContinue reading “I Deserve the King of Wakanda”

You’re Not Too Old

You can listen to this post as a podcast or you can read it in full. Both are included below. https://soundcloud.com/only1lady_v/youre-not-too-old/s-e8RRZ   Hey Queens! As a newly single Queen (again), I’ve been spending a lot of time pausing and reflecting on my past relationship. His mistakes as well as mine. Red flags that I mayContinueContinue reading “You’re Not Too Old”

“When to invest time in someone”

Hey loves! Have you ever wondered when you should invest time and energy into someone? I know I have. A lot of people wonder this same thing because we often find ourselves feeling like we’ve wasted time on someone who wasn’t worthy of it. Well, my advice is to have an open conversation with theContinueContinue reading ““When to invest time in someone””

Q2’2018 Goals Update

Walking into this next half of the year like: Yaaasssss!!! Hey Loves, it’s your girl Videllia and it’s time for your quarterly goals check in!!! As you all know, every quarter, I take some time to pause and reflect on the goals that I have set for the year. I celebrate the ones I’ve accomplished,ContinueContinue reading “Q2’2018 Goals Update”

Imperfectly Perfect

This blog is for any person out there who struggles with perfectionism and forgiving of themselves like me! It’s time for us to hang up our perfectionista hats and embrace the grace that God so freely gives us!” Hey loves! As you all know I have been sharing with you all that over the pastContinueContinue reading “Imperfectly Perfect”